Looking Differently, Thinking Differently
September 19, 2010 in Culture
I’ve been contemplating the title of Bonnie Davis’ book. It’s the subordinate clause in the title that’s troubling: How to Teach Students Who Don’t Look Like You. As I’m reading the book, the implicit assumption is that students who don’t look like me also don’t think like me.
At its heart, this book rests on the assumption that the ideal society is the multicultural society in which all groups, diverse in their appearance and culture, live peacefully and productively. But the book seems to go beyond that and imply that there should not be a standard culture to which all members of the other culture conform in some way. All cultures are equal, with no super-culture over it.
This is not the metaphor for America most of us grew up with. America is the melting pot, we were taught. Cultures arrive and while maintaining their cultural distinctives, join part of a greater culture that requires adaptation. Historically, it is the minority cultures that, in one form or another, adapt to the majority culture. That majority culture determines the language and norms of social interaction. Thus, when someone arrives from the Caribbean, they have a choice: continue with their culturally lax view of time and show up two hours late, or adapt to the dominant culture that requires punctuality. If they’re to be successful, they have to adapt.
That standard culture has traditionally been created and maintained by white males, and therein lies the rub. The white male created the culture, but also created the racism and misogyny that we saw gradually beaten back during the twentieth century. When white men ran things, we see they didn’t even hid their sense of superiority: it’s even evident in advertisements.
Yet, we like to think, all of that is behind us. At the very least, the blatant misogyny and racism has diminished almost to nonexistence.
But in putting all that behind us, we seem to have also discarded the notion of assimilation, of adaptation. Now, it’s not the students from different cultures adapting to the teacher who generally represents the standard culture. Instead, it’s the teacher who is to adapt.
There is much to be said for this: teachers who don’t adapt don’t reach all their students. But not to expect — and teach — adaption to students is to neglect the skills they need to succeed in the cliche “real” world.




